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Fiance involved in planning

Adriana, on January 13, 2020 at 9:40 PM

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Is anyone's fiance actually involved with all the planning and details? Just curious
Is anyone's fiance actually involved with all the planning and details? Just curious Smiley smile

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  • Miranda
    Dedicated September 2020
    Miranda ·
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    Nope he doesn't care. But if I ask him if he likes something he give me his honest opinion. How we were both raised the wedding is kind of a girl thing that the males don't get involved in
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  • M
    Legend June 2019
    Melle ·
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    He offered help. I gave him certain things to be in charge of
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  • Kaysey
    Super February 2020
    Kaysey ·
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    My FH has helped with the big things like picking the venue and food, making the guest list, and he's offered to do the seating chart once our RSVP's are returned. I put him in charge of the DJ/music and the alcohol for the wedding; he drinks more than I do and knows more about it lol. All of the small details like our colors, flowers, place cards, place settings and decorations he didn't care about; which I was expecting. He told me to do what I want. If I ask him to help with something, or asking him is opinion, he'll help, but I agree with some previous posters when they said it's a guy thing to not be that involved.

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  • Jennifer
    Super October 2020
    Jennifer ·
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    He has given input on the most unexpected details lol.

    Early on, he was vocal about not wanting a traditional plain ballroom reception (I 100% agreed with him)

    Most recently, we were at our ceremony chapel and he goes "are we going to cover that floor?" It is a pretty ugly floor, but I was surprised that he cared so much about an aisle runner being used.

    For the most part, he has been fine with whatever I want to do. He has been involved in choosing menu options and will go to the tasting with me. He also gave input on the guest list.

    I do ask for his opinion on everything though.

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  • MrsD
    Legend July 2019
    MrsD ·
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    Mine was somewhat involved, but he works a lot more than me and I'm a better planner. He went on all the venue tours, catering tastings & bakery tastings. He helped pick our officiant, photographer & videographer. He helped pick out the suits for the guys & himself. He picked out his groomsmen proposal boxes & helped me put them together, as well as the gifts for the groomsmen on the wedding day. He helped with some honeymoon decisions too. He also helped stamp & address our save the dates & invites.

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  • Jennifer
    VIP August 2021
    Jennifer ·
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    Mine is! He lets me take the lead, but we have decided on pretty much everything together!

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