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Fiancé and wedding dresses

Miosotys, on August 1, 2019 at 9:46 PM

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Has your fiancé seen your dress? Do you care if he/she does? I’m dying to show my fiancé. He doesn’t want to see it but he’s peaked over me while on my phone and staring at pictures of my dress so he has an idea of it but not great detail.
Has your fiancé seen your dress? Do you care if he/she does? I’m dying to show my fiancé. He doesn’t want to see it but he’s peaked over me while on my phone and staring at pictures of my dress so he has an idea of it but not great detail.

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  • Destiny
    VIP May 2020
    Destiny ·
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    I told fh id chop his fingers if he thinks about looking lol he understands i want it to be a surprise
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  • Rebecca
    Devoted September 2021
    Rebecca ·
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    No, and he doesn’t want to until the day of. Since we’re having the ceremony and the reception in the same place, it makes the most sense to do first look pictures and he’s even balking at that.
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  • Veronica
    Expert June 2021
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    I have no desire for my fiancé to see my wedding dress prior to the wedding and he wants it to be a surprise!
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  • Katie
    Super November 2019
    Katie ·
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    Since he is in the decision making on everything else I wanted my dress to be a surprise. It had been in our spare closet for a year now and he still hasn't looked! Only 3 more months to go 💕
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  • Diana
    VIP December 2019
    Diana ·
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    My FH doesn’t want to see my dress. I have it at his sisters house just to keep him from seeing it.
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  • Yam
    VIP September 2019
    Yam ·
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    Yep! He went with me to buy it, he’s helped me try it on and he wants to help me into it on our wedding day. He’s still going to be blown away seeing the whole look since he never sees me with fancy hair or a full face of makeup.
    I asked him if he wanted to change separately but he absolutely wants to tie my corset.
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  • Ashley
    Dedicated August 2021
    Ashley ·
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    My fiancé does NOT want to see it, hear it described or even see my reject dresses. I want to show him only because he’s my best friend and it’s hard keeping it from him (and I look GOOD). Haha. But overall I also don’t really want him to see it. All of his friends say he’s going to cry and he tears up even thinking about it and doesn’t want to do a first look, so it’s going to be a very emotional ceremony.
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  • A
    Dedicated October 2019
    Alexandria ·
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    Mine is a secret, and it's killing me because we tell each other everything. I want the first time he sees the dress to be at our first look though, I want the reaction captured.

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  • Ivy ORP
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    It was her first request to know at least what style of dress I was going to wear. She is not wearing a dress but always worries she won't look like we belong together. I did show her some options I found online and actually her opinion solidified that my #1 was THE one. I also showed her a picture of me in a bridal shop wearing a couple of dresses, one with almost the exact same top but a different skirt, the other has the tulle skirt I wanted but not with the detail my dress has. I was originally going to let her help me try on the dress when it arrived but decided she has seen enough. The dress is hanging in the closet but she will not see me in it until our first look. I have always dreamed of someone looking at me the way she does and I'm so excited to see that look when I am done up just for her. I am going to ask the same of her. I have no problem seeing her suit but I don't want to see her in the whole thing until that moment.

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  • Jasmine
    Master August 2021
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    I was too excited! I showed my fiance but the dress he saw is just a baseline of what I'm going to get. I'm getting it custom made. I did end up showing him the custom sketch of my dress that I received but even with him seeing what's he's already seen, I still feel like it would completely different actually seeing on me in person. He's been quite helpful in the process too. He's helped me pick my lace options that I received so hopefully he'll be willing to help me pick the fabric when I receive my sample box lol

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  • Alicia
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    Alicia ·
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    Not showing my fiance my dress has been the hardest thing EVER because I typically show and tell him everything. But we both want him to be surprised by it, so it's definitely worth it to me in the long run. I have, however, with the help of a bridesmaid, convinced him that it is bright orange (which it totally isn't), so that's been fun!

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  • Cher Horowitz
    Master December 2019
    Cher Horowitz ·
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    FH doesn't want to see the dress until our wedding! It's a personal decision, though. If both you and FH are on board, show him the dress!

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  • Jess
    Super September 2019
    Jess ·
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    My Fiance wants to see but I wont let him lol. I want it to be a surprise to him. However, I'm a terrible liar and he's been questioning things about the dress so I think he knows some details about it but not exactly what it looks like.

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  • AEW
    Dedicated December 2023
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    FH has not seen my dress - not even pictures of it online lol

    He's asked and keeps asking if/when am I gonna let him see the dress. And my answer has been the same: on our wedding day lol

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  • Mindy
    Dedicated August 2019
    Mindy ·
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    I absolutely refuse to let him see it
    hahahahahha
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  • Courtney
    Master December 2019
    Courtney ·
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    My FH refuses to see my dress, or anything related to my attire, he wants to be completely surprised. He was with me when I had to pick up my dress and stayed away when they up zipped the bag to make sure I got the right dress.

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  • Paula
    Super September 2019
    Paula ·
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    I don't want him to see it nor does he want to, he wants it to be a complete surprise.
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  • Andrea
    Super October 2019
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    He saw a picture of me in my dress when I bought it. He told me he doesn’t want to see me in it again until I’m all done up and walking down the aisle.
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  • L
    Dedicated September 2019
    Lizzy ·
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    I haven't shown my fiance but I really want to lol
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  • Amanda
    Just Said Yes April 2020
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    I want to show him so bad but I can't wait for it to be a surprise!

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