FH and I are planning to get married in March of 2021. Our date of choice caused a ton of drama with my family, and I held my ground on not delaying because it was really important to FH, to the point of losing family members.
Now FH has been reading the news about covid and vaccines. His closest cousins' family and one of his best friends wont travel until there is a vaccine, so FH wants to push the wedding back to Fall of 2021 to increase the chances of these guests coming. We already have talked about needing to prepare to downsize our guest list in case, but now FH also seems to be upset about doing that.
My issue is that I went to bat with several members of my family over our original date and talked at length about how it was so important to us that I couldn't back down. I feel like changing it will make things worse. I just am afraid to go through all the drama and gossip again, I would rather elope than do it. But FH is really pushing.
What should I do?
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