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Madeline
Dedicated October 2019

Feeling very insecure on my wedding dress

Madeline, on September 25, 2019 at 7:32 AM

Posted in Wedding Attire 24

Quick back story on when I got my dress ..the sample dress I tried on was three sizes bigger than my actual dress size so i had to trust the size they order for me would fit me ok. so I just got my wedding dress from alterations..I love my dress don’t get me wrong (front and back view) but from the...
Quick back story on when I got my dress ..the sample dress I tried on was three sizes bigger than my actual dress size so i had to trust the size they order for me would fit me ok. so I just got my wedding dress from alterations..I love my dress don’t get me wrong (front and back view) but from the side it just doesn’t do anything for me I don’t have the most exuberant curves or anything but the dress just make me look so flat (chest and bum) from the side view... I can’t help but to feel very insecure...mind you we are 8 days from our wedding and I just got my dress from alterations. I just hate feeling this way on my wedding dress...I’m annoyed with myself because I can’t stop thinking about it..I feel I should be grateful that I have a dress and that most importantly that I’m getting married to the love of my life but I just can’t stop thinking about it 😓

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  • Madeline
    Dedicated October 2019
    Madeline ·
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    Oh wow hello almost date twin! thank you! yes I think the day getting closer has added to me overthinking everything lol too many things in my mind right now...I'm doing my best to stay positive! wish you the best on your wedding day!! Im sure is going to be beautiful!Smiley heart

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  • Madeline
    Dedicated October 2019
    Madeline ·
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    Your so sweet thank you!!Smiley heart


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  • S
    Just Said Yes August 2020
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    First of all, it looks gorgeous on you! The dress fits you perfectly. I really don't think you look flat from the sides either? I think we are all so critical of ourselves and get these crazy ideas of how we are supposed to look from edited magazine photos, IG "models" and people we see in media who don't look natural to me at all. You look perfect in my opinion and I think a lot of women, most women, would kill to look this good in a wedding dress! I know whatever I saw may not curb your insecurities but I really think maybe its just wedding stress nerves? You could always buy the spanxs type shorts that have the butt pad in them if you're really worried about it and its going to stress you out. They do look natural as I have a friend who wears them a lot under less structured dresses and jeans even. You honestly don't need it! I bet once you have your makeup done, your hair done, surrounded by your closest friends/family and then put on your dress you're going to feel absolutely stunning. Once your soon to be spouse sees you walk down the aisle or at your first look, you're both going to be so enamored with one another you won't be thinking about your insecurities for the rest of the night.

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  • Angel
    Savvy December 2022
    Angel ·
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    Can you add more tulle or sometimes it’s under atire. It looks great but st the end of the day you want to feel beautiful
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