One of my good friends is getting married in June. Him and I have been talking about the wedding and he has asked me for some advice since I just got married in July. He wasn't in my wedding for a couple of reasons. Number one being cost. He has a decent paying job, but he is the process of getting married and buying a house. He was also traveling for my wedding and doesn't like to spend money so I didn't want to ask him to shell out $200 for a tux. I also originally asked 2 of my other closest friends to be in my wedding and they dropped out and I had considered asking him at that point to be in the wedding, but I didn't want him to feel like a replacement so I didn't ask him. Fast forward he is now getting married as I said and I went online today to see if they have a wedding website. I found that they do have a site and that I'm listed as a bridesmaid. Neither he or his fiancee have said anything to me about being in the wedding. While I am honored and would definitely say yes because he really is one of my closest friends, I feel kind of strange about it. I feel bad because he wasn't in my wedding, but if I could do it all over again I would have had him in my wedding instead of one of the girls that was in my wedding. I also barely know his fiancee. I've met her a few times and she is really sweet, but I know next to nothing about her. I guess this is more just a letting it off my chest thing because I would definitely agree to be in the wedding because he is a really good friend of him, but I just feel a little weird about it.
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