Cher Horowitz
Rockstar December 2019

Feeling Better Now

Cher Horowitz, on August 12, 2019 at 12:12 PM Posted in Community Conversations 0 15
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I really appreciate all the insight and advice everyone gave on my last post. FH and I had a serious discussion about finances. He did end up disclosing his new salary.

FH's parents didn't even know the other's finances until first filing taxes together. Talking about money before marriage is kind of taboo from his family's perspective. FH did apologize for keeping his salary a secret from me, but we're still going to counseling for sure Smiley smile

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  • Jill
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    I'm so glad it's working out for you! Good sign that he is having these discussions with you and still wanting to go to couples counseling Smiley smile

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  • Kelly
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    I’m glad y’all were able to work it out! It can be a tough thing in a marriage and it’s even harder when a person carries a belief from previous generations.
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  • Peggy
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    Yay I’m so glad y’all worked it out
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  • Laura
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    I'm really glad it worked out.

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  • Helena
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    So glad you worked it out! Finances is always such a touchy subject but better it come out now rather than a surprise later!
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  • W
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    So glad to hear!
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  • Cher Horowitz
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    It really is! I'm so grateful

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  • Cher Horowitz
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    I totally agree. I had no idea his family carried that belief!

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  • Cher Horowitz
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    Thank you, Peggy Smiley heart

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  • Cher Horowitz
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    Me too! Thank you, Laura!

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  • Cher Horowitz
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    Yes! I'm really happy we were able to have this conversation now instead of later!

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  • Cher Horowitz
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    Thank you, Willow!

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  • Kelly
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    I'm glad it was a simple misunderstanding!
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  • Samantha
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    It’s great that you were able to work this out! It’s such an important issue and it’s amazing that you were able to work through it together.
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  • Lauren
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    I'm glad yall were able to work it out!!

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