So my sister is 2 years older than me. I've always hit milestones before her just because I'm mature for my age. When my FH and I started looking for a house, she suddenly started looking too. She acted like she was in a rush for the entire process. FH and I ended up taking a break on the house hunting and she got a house, which is great I'm happy for her, but she's acting like she beat me to it. Now she keeps talking about "her wedding" when she's not even engaged. Today I told her that she is more than welcome to have any of my wedding decor after my wedding to use for hers and she said "I'll probably be married before then". Like, my mom is paying for my dress which is a lot of money for her (she set the budget not me) and now my sister is expecting to get married before my wedding which is a year away? All while there isn't even a ring on her finger. I get it, she's the older sister and feels like she needs to be first, but she hasn't been dating her boyfriend as long as I've been dating my FH. I just wanted this one thing and she always has to try to take the spotlight away from me. I never get attention in the family and the one time everyone is excited for something for me she wants to go ahead and be the first one to do it. Ughh
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