Favors

Favors are completely optional. However, if you decide to do you favors, it is an all or nothing sort of deal. In other words, if you get favors for some guests you need to get them for all guests.

I agree with CeCe. That would be like saying only some guests can drink or some guests can eat. You’re hosting all your guests, they must be all treated the same.

Oh my, yes. if you have invited them, you need to ensure that you have access to and enough supply for all tangible aspects of the wedding or else your guests will consider it distasteful.

I agree you most definitely should have enough for all guest and not some. It doesn’t matter who the plus one is.

If you are providing favors, everyone gets one regardless if they are a plus one or not.

Why give someone a plus one if you don’t want to treat that person like an actual guest?
Everyone invited to your wedding should get a favor

View Quoted Comment I do agree with this. At the same time, favors are always optional and many get left behind. Do edibles one per person or cut them entirely and spend money on what guests notice and remember: good food, free drinks, great dj or photos for your memories.

Are you upset that some of your guests RSVP'd with someone's name not written on the invite card? Who are they inserting if not their romantic partner? I fully support being an intentional host and telling that person, you invited XX, not YY. The spouse/ partner is not an interchangeable +1. They can catch up with said friend another time. That said, if your favors are short, it will look poorly on you. If able, opt for edible favors which are economical and in demand. Best wishes/

View Quoted Comment This is my question too. Are you saying that some of your guests are bringing plus ones that you didn't give them? Or as substitute of their partner that you did invite? In that case, it's ok to tell them only the people on the invitation are invited. If you did give people a plus one, then that person is also considered a guest.

Once someone is coming as your guest, you need to treat them as you would all the other guests. Everyone should be treated equally.

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Can you return all of the favors? I find most of them to be junk. No offense to you.
I like the idea of donating to a worthy charity and putting cards as such on the tables in lieu of favors.

I totally agree with everyone- favors are an all or nothing kind of thing.

Every guest should get a favor. Everyone coming to your wedding is your guest.