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emsker
Expert September 2017

Fathers of the bride and groom attire

emsker, on March 4, 2017 at 2:21 PM Posted in Wedding Attire 0 22

I have no idea if they're supposed to match the groomsmen, if they should match our mothers, or if they should just wear whatever they want. What are yours wearing?

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Latest activity by BridalBethany, on March 5, 2017 at 1:22 PM
  • Leanne
    VIP April 2017
    Leanne ·
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    Ours are renting tuxes and having plain silver vests and ties. They will compliment the groomsmen who have patterned silver. My mother opted to coordinate with my dad and fmil is wearing clothes lol

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  • APZ
    VIP March 2017
    APZ ·
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    It's really up to them/you. My ffil is a groomsman, so he of course is wearing the matching attire(navy suit). My father is wearing a complementary grey suit with navy tie to coordinate with both the rest of the men in bp as well as my mom who is wearing a navy dress.

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  • MissMtoMrsC
    VIP November 2016
    MissMtoMrsC ·
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    We had our fathers wear the same tux as the groomsmen but different color vests....

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  • Celia Milton
    Celia Milton ·
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    Let them wear what they want. Some of mine match; some of mine don't.

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  • Carousel
    VIP October 2017
    Carousel ·
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    The only guideline I've heard is that no one should be dressed more formally than the groom. So for instance, my FH is wearing a suit, so my dad won't be wearing his tux even though he owns one.

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  • M
    VIP March 2017
    Miss S. ·
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    Dads can wear whatever they want. My personal preference is they they not match the groomsmen, others prefer they do. My father asked for attire guidelines, so I recommended a charcoal suit and a tie that matched my mom's dress.

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  • Joy
    Super October 2017
    Joy ·
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    My dad and FFIL are wearing the tux the groomsmen are wearing but different vest

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  • HickChick418
    VIP May 2017
    HickChick418 ·
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    I told mine to wear whatever they feel comfortable in

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  • C
    Savvy June 2017
    Casey ·
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    Father and FFIL are wearing same tux as groomsmen but different ties.

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  • Samantha
    Devoted July 2017
    Samantha ·
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    My dad and FFIL are wearing suits. The groomsmen are wearing light gray tuxes. I don't care what color they wear, but I know my dad is wearing a darker gray suit.

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  • Ayrial
    Devoted May 2017
    Ayrial ·
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    My father of the groom is matching the groomsmen but different tie

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  • emsker
    Expert September 2017
    emsker ·
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    Thanks everyone! I was hoping I could just let them wear what they want, but my dad has literally only worn a tie 2 times that I can remember, so I think I'll just advise a nice shirt and tie and maybe a jacket if he's comfortable wearing one.

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  • FallforLindahl
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    FallforLindahl ·
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    Mine are wearing all black and a white shirt.

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  • Mrs.K
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    Mrs.K ·
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    I think I'll probably have my dad coordinate, but not match. FHs dad is also his best man so he will be matching.

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  • Erin Wood
    Master July 2017
    Erin Wood ·
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    My Dad is wearing a tux. FH dad is wearing a suit.

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  • Jennifer VR
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    Jennifer VR ·
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    My dad is very evasive about what color tie he wants to wear. I think he'll be matching my mom, but I'm getting him a tie to match the wedding party in case he decides on that. He'll get a buttonhole as well (think you call them boutonnieres?).

    eTA: all the men are wearing black suits.

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  • Morganne
    Devoted May 2017
    Morganne ·
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    We gave our fathers the option to match the groomsmen and set them up at men's warehouse like the rest of the wedding party. My father is doing a black suit with white tie, GM are wearing grey suits with blue vests and ties, and FFIL is wearing tan. I didn't mind them doing different looks as long as they felt comfortable

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  • MrsRidley
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    MrsRidley ·
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    My dad is a classy man and he will probably pull some fancy mess out his closet. FOB has not been with MOB since she was 19 and he's married now so no, they will not be matching. They can honestly wear whatever they want.

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  • TIFFANY
    Super July 2017
    TIFFANY ·
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    I left all that up to my fiance

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  • Spiff
    VIP August 2017
    Spiff ·
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    My FFIL is wearing the same suit but with a different tie

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