What's the standard for rentals for the father of the bride/groom? Should they match the wedding party (i'm thinking no) or should they be totally different? Should they include any of the wedding colors at all (ours are red, silver, charcoal) or should they be as generic as possible (black tux, white shirt, black tie)? Also, my FFIL is officiating our wedding. We are having a secular ceremony, so should he just be in the same tux as my dad and step-dad- but maybe with a special added touch since he's officiating for us?
