Father is in a wheelchair

I would have someone else push the wheelchair so you n your father can be side by side.

Talk with him and see what he wants. I think it could be very sweet having you push him down the aisle. If either of you doesn't feel comfortable with that, have the discussion and see who you would want to walk you down the aisle. You also don't need anyone to walk you down the aisle. One idea is your parents walk down the aisle together right before you, you walk down the aisle, and then your father hands you off to your FH at the end of the aisle.

My friend pushed her grandma in her wheelchair down the aisle.

It's not motorized, right? If you could rent one you could hold his hand. Bawling, there will be bawling.

I think it would be sweet if your mother pushed him. Then, if you're doing the 'who gives you away', they can both say they do. I've always found that approach to be a lot sweeter than just the father doing it.

My husband and I were in similar situations. His mother has multiple sclerosis and uses a motorized cart. He held her hand and walked next to her down the aisle. My father is very elderly and uses a wheelchair as well but he still has some mobility. My brother walked me a majority of the way and then my dad took me down the rest of the aisle since he couldn't walk the full distance.

I would look into the motorized cart rental if possible so you two can have your moment together. With my long gown I would not have felt safe pushing my dad in his wheelchair and it would have given my husband a limited view of me during the moment as well. I'd ask someone else to push the chair for you.