Father Daughter Dance Songs that Aren't Sappy or Toxic

We're doing "Butterfly Kisses." It's another veryyyyy typical one, but I've known it'd be our song since I was a little girl and he'd sing it to me. I never got a creepy vibe out of it, but I know everyone is different.

I’m doing “My Way” by Frank Sinatra. It’s a very conservative song, it’s not at all a sappy father daughter love song. The song speaks about living your life and sometimes not always making the best decisions but doing it your way and in the end it all works out. When I was younger me and my father always disagreed and as much as I love my dad to pieces we have only gotten super close in the past five years. I’d suggest giving “my way” a listen to. Hope this helps

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Chantal,

I wish I had that. My sister decided on "My Little Girl" Tim McGraw the very first time she heard it, but I just don't have that kind of relationship with my dad.

You could always find an instrumental version of a more traditional song to play down the word's undertones that bother you.

I was planning on What a Wonderful World by Louis Armstrong for my father-daughter dance, but my dad is no longer likely to be able to travel to our wedding due to new health issues. It's a nice, traditional song, but without the sappy and, I agree, often slightly creepy lyrics of many other traditional songs for this dance

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Gotcha! Does he like more old timey music? Does he have an artist he really likes that you could pick a song from to surprise him? Have you considered just doing something instrumental and quick? I am doing a father-daughter dance FIRST for the whole song, and then he'll pass me to FH and FH and I are going to dance for like a minute by ourselves and then our DJ will call others to the floor. FH and I are NOT dancers at all...

You could do something a lot more casual, like James Taylor's "You've Got a Friend." I also looked up some other apparently "non sappy" music, and found

"To Sir With Love" - Lulu

"Kind and Generous" - Natalie Merchant

"Wildflowers" - Tom Petty

I haven't heard those last three, so I'm not sure if they're easy to dance to. If these don't work for ya, I hope you find a song that you like! Like I said, you can always just pick out an instrumental version of a song you both enjoy and have it played, even if it's not a "love-y" song.

View Quoted Comment Yes I think this is a great idea as well, instrumental songs are perfect like Moonlight Serenade by Glenn Miller, or sleepwalk by santo and Johnny version.

My dad and I are going to use Just Fishin' by Trace Adkins

We are doing "Here comes the sun" By The Beatles. My dance will be with my step dad as my father passed when I was 8. I chose to avoid something super sappy or about step dads because most speak harshly about fathers and its not my dad's fault he can't be there to dance with me,

I was thinking of using 'Humble and Kind' by Tim McGraw

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I've been considering Humble and Kind as well

I feel the same way about a lot of traditional father/daughter songs. My dad and I danced to my wish by rascal flats, which I think was a perfect fit for our relationship.

Mine is so niche it may not work. But we’re doing Drive by Alan Jackson. My dad is a huge nascar/racing/muscle car guy and he’s had an 88 mustang he bought brand new. He taught me how to drive a stick in that car. He’d let me sit in his lap and steer his truck home from the bus stop. He’d let me steer the boat for a little bit when we went to the lake. The first time I heard that song as a kid I thought it would be the one I used. Not a typical father/daughter song, but it’s us.

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Ug the feels, that's so great. I love that song. I would cry watching a father/daughter dance to that song. It doesn't work for me and my dad, but what a great pick.

I am doing a song called Cinderella by Steven Curtis Chapman. Its super sweet and simple! I knew it would be mine and my dads song since i first heard it when I was 8!

"My Girl" by the Temptations? Its upbeat, and fun!