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Kkmichele89
Beginner April 2016

Father daughter dance song, when your not close with your father?

Kkmichele89, on January 23, 2016 at 1:41 PM Posted in Planning 0 10

My dad and I have had a real touch and go relationship my whole life. He's been in and out, mainly because he works off and lives 4 hours away. So we really don't have that strong of a bond. Since I've gotten older we've started talking a lot more. I want to keep to tradition and have the father daughter dance, I don't want anything that is going to seem fake because of the lyrics, but I can't decide on a song. I have no idea what direction to go with this. Has anyone else had this problem? HELP!!!

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Latest activity by Lauren + Ryan, on January 24, 2016 at 1:54 AM
  • Robert Benda
    Robert Benda ·
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    If you insist, you can pick ANY song you like.

    If there is a song with a strong, personal association, go with that first. One of my all-time favorites was when the bride had me play her dad's favorite song, "Elvira" by the Oakridge boys.

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  • Jeleebeenz
    VIP September 2015
    Jeleebeenz ·
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    What a Wonderful World by Louis Armstrong?

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  • mrjonesandme
    Master September 2016
    mrjonesandme ·
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    We are not close....it would really awkward for us to dance together for that reason. So we are not doing it. Easy enough.

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  • Kkmichele89
    Beginner April 2016
    Kkmichele89 ·
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    We've gotten closer over the past few years, I'm wondering if anyone knows any songs that could be used. Instead of all those loveydovey touchy father daughter songs lol. I want to have the father daughter dance!

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  • FormerUser
    Master July 2015
    FormerUser ·
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    Ask him.

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  • Susan
    Master March 2015
    Susan ·
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    I would give anything to have been able to dance with my father. He passed a few months before the big day ( I got legally married early in the hospital so he could see it and be there). Ask him his favorite song or if he has a suggestion.

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  • Becoming a Mrs
    Master July 2016
    Becoming a Mrs ·
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    Me and my dad arnt that close either. FH is always giving me song ideas for him and I'm like uh no that's nothing like our relationship. When I was younger he loved playing "butterfly kisses" and saying it was our song. I'm either going to just pick it. Or ask him what he would like. But I know that's probly the song he would pick. I think I might just pick it and surprise him.

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  • Steffany
    Super August 2016
    Steffany ·
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    Any song 'father/daughter' song would be fine - I don't think anyone is going to assume anything just because you had a traditional dance with your dad at your wedding! You can also talk to your DJ about editing a song down so that it doesn't last as long, if you'd like.

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  • Shayna
    Super June 2016
    Shayna ·
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    We are dancing to "Your Song" by Elton John since my dad loves Sir Elton. I don't think it's overly sappy. Maybe something like that?

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  • Lauren + Ryan
    Super February 2016
    Lauren + Ryan ·
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    Artie Shaw "Dancing in the Dark". I haven't heard the version with lyrics, but we are dancing to the one without.

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