Family woes

So when I bring up the wedding a lot of the time my family acts like were made of money and gets poopy that were not inviting moms friends and my sister in laws sisters and acts like it's a hassle or that I owe them to buy their attire and some times when they say this summer is a poop show I say my wedding will be fun and every can relax and enjoy a nice meal and open bar and they make snarky comments and act like going is a hassle. Has anyone else dealt with this? I just ignore it but is frustrating, were also paying our self's. Eveything little penny or eveything has come out of our pocket so it's not like I'm spending their money lol