Family & Relationship

You can’t avoid fights and arguments. Every relationship will have conflict but it’s how you are during and how you work thru the conflict that really say something

If she is threatening you, the problem is not her mom, it's her. Even if the arguments are over her mom, or occur because her mom is pressuring her, that doesn't justify her in threatening you.

If she is old enough to get married, she should be old enough to resist her mom's pressure. If she's incapable of doing that, then she needs counseling to help her learn. But your focus should be on whether and how she changes, not trying to get her mom to change.

Also, if she's old enough to get married, she's a woman not a "girl."

Threats are not okay. At all. What are you doing with this person??

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Well the person would has to be my future Wife that you are Referring to because she's not the problem her Family is the problem

Who is threatening who in this situation? If either you or your significant other is threatening the other, that is absolutely not ok and you need to put the brakes on that relationship. If either of you are being threatened by her mom, your SO needs to decide if she’s willing to cut her mom out of her life.

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Thanks for your Advice your Advice worked even though me and my Fiancee don't get along we're working everything out to stay together and never leave each other

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That's... not a good mindset to have. This all sounds really unhealthy--at the very least, I highly recommend individual counseling.