Hello everyone,
I am looking for advice on if my brother should get an invitation to my wedding. This topic is very upsetting for my family, mostly my mother who happens to be paying for the wedding so I don’t feel like I have a right to ask her to not invite him. However he struggles with substance abuse and cannot control himself around alcohol and we are having an open bar, so I feel like inviting him is just setting him up to fail. He also has a history of getting very aggressive, to the point where he has been kicked out of my parents home, and in the past been fired from multiple jobs because of his aggressive attitude. I am scared for what will happen if he’s invited. Sad for my mother. And losing sleep over this. Help please.