Family drama!

So we are doing a little ceremony on the cemetery for my sister and nephew a few days before the wedding. This will be a ceremony giving my sis her bouquet and my nephew is ring bearer pillow and puck. With this event I wanted to make sure it was small and all peeps there was who WE wanted. With being said the list was originally 15 people (mostly family) I did trim the list down to 6 not including fh and my self. Last night I sent a group message to the peeps I want there with us. Everything went fine until this morning I get a message from my mom say I “forgot” to include someone. I said no I did not, she proceeded to tell me that I didn’t include my cousin. I told mom that I didn’t forget her she was not on my list for this event. My totally mom understands. The issue is now laying with my cousin. Don’t get me wrong I love my cousin but this event is suppose to very small unfortunately a lot of people that I would want to the be there did not make the list. Now I am forced to have my list changed to please my cousin. I try to play the nice guy here and sent her all the details told it was an oversight and everything but her and mom will not answer us. At this point my give -o - f meter is in the red and I could care less if she is mad. I maybe being a bridezilla but this is OUR wedding and we choose who we want at all events. I can’t wait till this wedding planning is over! And we can be away from everyone.


Sorry I needed to vent.