Okay this is going to be a long post and I am just really wondering what to do.
Soooo, I have two older sisters. One is a piece of cake to deal with, the other (we will call her Grace)- I have had soooo many problems with her as kids, growing up, and now adult hood. Anyways, my two children usually go spend a month with my dad in the summer so they can visit their cousins and everyone else. We have been doing this since we moved 9 hours away from my dad. Anyhow, one summer my sister (Grace) offered to bring the kids back home because she wanted to visit. Of course, I said okay because I thought it'd be nice to see Grace.
Grace has always had a thing for my FH. Very inappropriate. They were friends first, then she introduced me to my FH and we ended up hitting it off (been together 7 years). It is very clear that she has had other feelings towards him but we just all try to ignore it when shes around. When she introduced me to him she was married with 3 kids at the time. Anyways, when she brought my kiddos home it was a Friday- We ended up having drinks at the house and she acted completely stupid. There were a couple time where she totally disrespected my home and my relationship... Instead of getting crazy I walked in the house and started cleaning up.
Well she started causing problems and then finally left for the night. To much of my surprise she had told both of my aunts that I kicked her out and all kinds of crazy stuff (that obviously didn't happen even under the circumstances where I should have kicked her out)
So now a year later, my aunts still hate me. between then and now I was able to confront my sister about everything she said and why she lied (she claims she didn't tell my aunts anything, which I know is a lie) Grace apologized and we have moved on. She has done a complete 360 turn around and has been awesome these past few months. But, my aunts not so much. I invited both aunts to the bridal shower I am having on Saturday- They both don't want to go, mind you they have said soooo much bad stuff about my FH and I... I even sent both STD's to my wedding.
Would it be wrong of me to not send invitations to these people? I have sat and thought about this situation and why would I want people at my wedding who don't care for me or my FH. Unfortunately I started thinking about this after I already sent STD's which I am sure are in the trash anyways. I just honestly invited them out of obligation more than me wanting it. What should I do?
I am 90% positive that they won't show up anyways and that other 10% they might show up and make ugly faces and talk trash about my wedding. They already hate me I just don't want to stir up anymore drama if I don't invite them. I'm so torn and confused.
(sorry this is so long)