So I am a bridesmaid for my friends wedding who happens to be marrying my husbands brother. My husband is the Best Man.
The issue I am having is they are being inconsiderate with other people money. The groom wants all of the guys to buy a $200 Tux Jacket, this does not include anything else. Just the jacket. The shoes are also $150 adding to the budget. This is most likely going to be a $600-$700 attire.
They also want to have a separate bachelor/bachelorette trip. Both are out of the country! For the bachelorette trip it is coming up to $1500 for only lodging and airfare.
Now me and my husband are trying to stay positive but I feel like that is a lot to ask someone to pay and it’s not even their wedding. Not to mention when we got married 2 years prior they complained about our prices which weren’t even close to what they want us to spend!!
Me and my husband do make decent money compared to people in the group but we still have personal stuff outside of the wedding.
How do I we talk to them without feeling like we aren’t nagging? Or is it rude for me to ask them to reconsider?
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