(All from Colorado) The best man for my best friend's wedding planned a bachelor party in New Orleans next month-
he gave us two months notice and broke the finances down to about $1,000 a person- even with splitting between 7 people. He'd already booked the hotels, tours, rental car, etc.
The wedding is in Florida, so we're already paying for plane tickets, uber rides, food, the tuxes, and all other related costs.
I would feel really bad for having to tell the groom, who's been my friend for over 10 years, that I can't go because of the costs.
Should I make my finances work? Or is that completely ridiculous to ask someone to pay $1,000 just for the bachelor party?