I am hoping for some advice on how to handle this situation. My sister is getting married. I got an invite about a month ago and the wedding is next month. We have 2 other sisters and they live in 2 different states but those 3 are still close. A little background... we are half siblings and have had a strained relationship. We share the same mother but they do not speak to her. My entire life I have been excluded by them even though they claim I'm their real sister and they have no issue with me. However, I have always been excluded. They even got a trinity symbol tattoo for 3 sisters when hey.. there's a 4th! 👋 They have always treated me different because of our looks. They are well.. for lack of a better word, fake. Fake hair, fake books, fake eyelashes.. and I am more... natural and have some curves. They have always ostracized me because of this. Even after losing weight.
So back to the issue.. I was totally excited for the wedding until I saw the wedding party. Our 2 sisters are her maid of honors. And she has an additional 10 bridesmaids.. 10. She also asked my father to walk her down the aisle. I feel that should be left for me as I am his daughter. Anyhow, I feel like it's a huge slap in the face and just another instance for them to shove it in my face that I am not good enough for them. I have already decided I am not going to the wedding. My question is.. should I be honest or just leave it be so I don't look selfish? Please help.
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