Ex Step Daughter and the Wedding

No - as long as she is comfortable with it I think its a nice gesture.

Not strange or wrong at all. Even if you're not still married to her father, she was/is your step-daughter. To me, that's family. :-)

I see nothing wrong with it, especially if you have a good relationship with her. Like you said, you divorced her dad, not her and think its a wonderful thing that you are still able to maintain a relationship with her

My FH's ex-daughter is helping put together our reception. Not weird at all. He raised her and her brother and they still call him Dad.

I think that is awesome. I agree with you that just because your no longer in her fathers life, it does not mean you are no longer in hers.

I'm with everyone else... I think it's wonderful that you still have that kind of relationship

Nothing wrong with it at all. U both is lucky to still have that bond. I respect u for even still knowledging her as your step daughter. Alot of ppl wouldnt even do that.

@Antoinette - My ex husband and his family were in my daughters life since she was five. We divorced when she was seventeen. They do not even acknowledge her in public and she is so devastated. I can't imagine not having a relationship with Kat.

My ex husband doesn't even speak to his own daughter. I love his daughter like she were my own flesh and blood. I am paying for her hotel room that night and want to honor her as if she were my own kid.

I think it is great! My exs daughter is in my wedding. You can divorce an adult but not the kids.

Not wrong at all! Good for you! When you make a commitment to someone you make a commitment to their kids as well. Even though it didn't work out with your ex husband (for what i am sure are good reasons) It's awesome you are still honoring your commitment to his daughter and still see her as part of the family.

Nothing wrong with that. My "ex" step daughter, who I raised came to my wedding and brought her baby. I sat her at my Dad's table with the rest of my close family.

Nothing wrong with that at all. My ex-step mother is sitting in the family row for the same reason.