Hi y’all! So please tell me if I’m overthinking.
I live in a very small town in Alabama and the last two months have been so hard finding a venue that I like and is in my budget, well I finally found one that both my fiancé and I love!
Well, yesterday I got on Facebook and saw that my boyfriends ex is in the process of booking the venue. I’m sure at this point she already has. We both grew up outside of Birmingham and our moms are friendly with each other, her and I were relatively good friends for a semester at Auburn when we had the same class, after that we sort of fell off and I haven’t really spoken with her in years, except the occasional ‘lol’ comment on a meme she shares on Facebook.
I’m worried that living in a small town, if I were to book the venue people would think I’m trying to be malicious or maybe copy her or steal her joy. And I don’t want anyone to think that—we just have a limited amount of venues to choose from.
Am I overthinking!? I just feel awkward about the whole thing. What would you do in my position?
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