My sister recently separated from her husband. She is seeing a married man who cheats on her, hits her, got her doing drugs, has her pay for everything, and is bleeding her dry. They break up and get back together constantly and act like teenagers. He's got several children and a wife he goes home to regularly who takes him back even though she's seen my sister WITH him.
They are a social unit but I really don't want him at my wedding. Neither does the rest of the family for obvious reasons.
She asked me if she could bring him. I said no because we're not giving plus ones to anyone, including my fiance's sister who also just separated from her husband. I explained it was intimate and we only want people we know (and their spouses for people if we haven't met them). She seemed to have understood but I know she's gonna ask again.
Am I in the wrong for not wanting to invite him? What should I do if she pushes the question again? I do want her there but there will be drama if he goes. Plus I really don't want him on the pictures or video.
Also it's a destination wedding in Mexico so she will be paying her way (and potentially his if he's allowed).
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