My sister in-law is getting married in another country and my in-laws have known about this for weeks now trying to get a church lined up. They finally got one a few days ago...but her brother and I only heard about it yesterday and it wasn’t even an appropriate type of conversation- it was literally blurred out as a means to fill a silence...I’m beyond upset as I feel that as part of the immediate family we have a right to a discussion about this as it will costs a couple thousand dollars for us to attend. I understand that she has every right to get married where she wants to but we are expected to be there and yet we find out the day before she is sending out her “Save The Date”s...which is incredibly selfish and rude in my eyes. His other two siblings knew well before this conversation and I question why were weren’t told this sooner.
I just feel like we should have been included before a finite decision was reached.
Please let me know the etiquette for this and if I am overreacting.
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