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LaurenAOK
Beginner September 2019

Entree options: chicken and fish vs. chicken and beef?

LaurenAOK, on June 12, 2019 at 12:33 PM

Posted in Wedding Reception 26

We are doing plated dinner with two entree choices at our reception. Our venue offers chicken, fish, and beef (and no matter what we choose there will also be a silent vegetarian option available). We are trying to decide which two entrees to offer. We are both pescatarian. We definitely want one...

We are doing plated dinner with two entree choices at our reception. Our venue offers chicken, fish, and beef (and no matter what we choose there will also be a silent vegetarian option available).

We are trying to decide which two entrees to offer. We are both pescatarian. We definitely want one option to be chicken since it is the most universally liked - my family has a lot of picky eaters that would definitely order it.

My FH wants to do chicken and fish so that he can eat the fish option (I'm not a huge fan of fish and would probably get the vegetarian option either way). While our vegetarian option looks good, he said it's just not what he wants to eat at his wedding. Which I can understand.

However, it seems like most people expect a beef/steak option at a wedding, and many of our guests are traveling far so I want them to be satisfied. I'm worried the lack of a "real" meat option would be noticed and grumbled about.

As a guest, which would you prefer? Chicken and beef or chicken and fish? If there was no beef option, would that be noticeable?

Edit - Forgot to add that our cocktail hour will definitely have both beef and fish hors d'oeuvres available.

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  • F
    Dedicated November 2019
    Fia ·
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    Beef and chicken.
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  • Caitlin
    Just Said Yes January 2026
    Caitlin ·
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    Chicken and beef!!!
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  • Mrs. Coakley
    Master June 2017
    Mrs. Coakley ·
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    We did beef and fish for a couple of reasons. Our venue was right on the water so very fresh fish, and wedding chicken is usually super dry and rubbery.
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  • Angerra
    VIP August 2019
    Angerra ·
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    I think having chicken and fish would be the safest option. I love salmon btw! However, I would think that chicken and beef would be more well received. However, I know try to get an idea of what you think your guests would like best.

    Out of the 85 rsvps we've received this far, 30 chose chicken, 24 chose fish, and 27 chose beef. No one has chosen the vegetarian option yet and 4 are children.
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  • Andrew
    Just Said Yes July 2022
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    Hey there! Just stumbled upon your post and thought I'd chime in! When it comes to wedding entrees, it's a big decision! Chicken and fish versus chicken and beef? Tough call! Personally, I'm all about that surf 'n turf combo, so I'd lean towards chicken and fish. But hey, everyone's taste buds are different, right?

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  • Michelle
    Champion December 2022
    Michelle ·
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    You will get better feedback if you start a new post rather than resurrecting one that is 5 years old since the last response.


    Many couples don’t find that duo entrees work and there will be food waste regardless. Not everyone likes fish, not everyone likes chicken in banquet settings which is easier to undercook which is dangerous than it to overcooked chicken. As far as actual choices, you need to talk to people who will actually be attending. Internet strangers can’t begin to know what tastes and preferences your actual guests have or the potential food allergies with seafood or sauces used on either entree choice. Also, it’s a highly unpopular opinion online, but your guests need to know exactly what they will be eating. “Chicken”, “beef,” whatever tells them nothing. Is it bone in fried chicken that requires hands to eat with? Is it short ribs that are also polarizing vs a simple steak? Couples are told to withhold that information “because guests don’t need to know” which is the opposite of being a good host. And if someone knows that X and Y are being served but they don’t like Y, they can order X instead without wasting thousands of dollars of your money and their food.
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