My sister in law thinks that she should be my maid of honor because she introduced me to my fiancé. We were good friends in college and now we will be family. But since college she has changed greatly.
This woman is self centered, entitled and she makes it very difficult to be around her... she does what she can to upstage anyone and recently told me she plans on looking better than me on my wedding day.
I chose my absolute best friend as my MOH. There was no question about it who I wanted. It was a no brainer.
My SIL is so upset. She told me that since she introduced me to my fiancé she should be honored by being my MOH.
She asked if I would consider a second MOH. I don’t want a second one, and she has already been asked to be a bridesmaid.
To top it off, she is demanding a title, and wants to give a speech at the wedding.
What can I do? I’m marrying into the family, I’ve thrown her a beautiful (and very expensive) baby shower as well as stepped up for her when her MOH was trash. No, I did not receive the title but I didn’t care about that.
She never compromises, and it constantly has to be about her. I personally don’t like to live in the spotlight, but my wedding day should be different.
Any advice? Thank you!