I just have to vent that my engagement photos were cancelled last minute today and I am fuming mad! Our photographer emailed me a 11:50 saying he had to cancel because he has a bad cough and cold and the weather is going to be cold today. FYI it is going to be 41 degrees and we live in buffalo so it's not going to get any warmer! lol I had already gotten my hair done and had to cancel last minute on my MUA. I used time to get out of work early last night( I work night shift) so I could rest before getting ready. I had my nails done and got a spray tan a few days ago. I know things happen and people get sick but to email a few hours before is just so disappointing! What will happen on the wedding day? He asked if we could reschedule but it is hard with my FH's and my schedule. He's a CO who is currently out of the area and I work 12 hour nights. Am I being too harsh to ask for my deposit back??