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I'm in the same boat and every time I start to have a panic attack I tell myself that no matter what happens it will get done. Even if I have to let go of some of the details.

Start tasking people out. It's hard for me to ask for help but I'm at the point where I've been giving to do lists to friends and family.

Take a deep breath honey! It WILL all get done. I know it doesn't seem like it, but it will. Do some delegating like Fins! Pass around some easy (but time consuming) tasks so that you can focus on the bigger picture. You'd be surprised how many jump in to help! And in the end....you will be married....and THAT'S what counts!

@ Fins

I am a do myself type of girl, and at this point I’m telling myself whatever happen happens. If something goes wrong it’s a whatever. I found myself trying to hold back tears. People are NOW telling me what they think, when I’ve been engaged for over a year. At this point I don’t want to hear it because there is nothing that I can do…. I need more time, but at the same time I’m ready for the wedding to get here already.

@ Future Mrs. Cooper thanks.

Sandra we all have cracking points. What you have to remember is that all the details don't really matter because in the end you will still be married to the love of your life. Don't let people's comments bring you down all that really matters is that you and DS are happy. Keep your chin up your big day is almost here... *hugs*

Just remember, all that matters is that you 2 get married. If nothing goes according to plan but at the end of the day you are married, it was a success. Don't stress over things you can't control. And remember, the show must go on. Just go with the flow.

Thanks ladies

Yeah definitely don't lose your sanity over one day. of course that's a special day, but like mellojean said all that matters is you and your FH getting married. don't let details be the death of you ya know. and ENJOY your day!

Keep your head held high and just break things down into small tasks. I know it seems like there is a mountain of stuff left to do, but hey... you are supposed to be relaxing and feeling amazing for your wedding day. Do something nice for yourself and you'll feel better. Maybe take a nice, long, hot shower (that works wonders for me!)