Eloping?

Please, no harsh comments I can’t deal with it today. I’ve always been back and forth about having a wedding. More of me has always wanted to just elope. I was getting excited about a wedding, but I just feel like I’ll mess it up (and by some of the conversations on here I’m likely to.) My fiancé and I have always leaned more towards elopement anyway. We want to put the money towards a baby, which is something we want more than a wedding. We talked about eloping and he wants to do it, but I feel like I’m taking away from his mother. My mom surprised me by saying it was okay if I did (she wanted me to have a wedding because she regrets not having one.) His Mom has two boys and most likely the only one getting married is him. I asked if she would be upset and he said she would get over it. I’m also worried his family (snobs) will say that we are pregnant or skipped a wedding because he is poor. (He didn’t grow up with money and they often made comments about it, evident in his cousins comments to him about it. Which is funny because the worst ones are currently in debt. 😅😒) I don’t want him to deal with more comments every time we go around them, he says he doesn’t care but it bothers him. Can someone please give me advice?