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Julie
Beginner October 2020

Eloping and Ceremony

Julie, on February 5, 2021 at 10:55 AM Posted in Etiquette and Advice 1 7

I'm eloping in July. Is it unusual to then have an actual ceremony and is doing it in June of 2022 too late?

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Latest activity by Mrs. Spring, on February 5, 2021 at 5:18 PM
  • SLY
    Master January 2022
    SLY ·
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    I think that would be fine! There's no rule that says you have to have your ceremony with everyone at a certain time after your elopement. A year after would be great because that gives you time to save up money for whatever you'll be doing, and gives any guests you might have some time to plan to attend!

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  • Jessica
    Devoted February 2021
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    There really isn’t a tradition when it comes to eloping That I’m aware of and considering all the stuff that’s going on I don’t think anyone would bat an eyelash at it
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  • Julie
    Beginner October 2020
    Julie ·
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    I agree. I just worry it might not be as special or feel like the real thing.

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  • Jessica
    Devoted February 2021
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    It definitely won’t be the same as waiting but if it’s special and important to you it will feel that way to everyone because they’ll see and feel how important it is to you
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  • Michelle
    Champion December 2022
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    Eloping is a real wedding. It's the legal aspect that many consider to be the real wedding. There is no "actual" wedding because anything after the legal ceremony is a renewal of vows. Don't tell people you're not yet married because that will backfire. If you want everyone in attendance, skip the elopement.
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  • Michelle
    Master April 2021
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    If you want the bigger reception later on, call it a vow renewal, not a wedding.
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  • Mrs. Spring
    Master April 2021
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    It's fine. Anything goes these days. Just be honest with your guests tgat you're legally married already
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