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Just Said Yes October 2017

Elopement guilt

Lisa, on September 22, 2017 at 12:04 AM Posted in Planning 0 4

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I'm getting "eloped" in 3 weeks with just immediate family present. My parents and siblings and my future husbands parents and siblings and his grandparents. I have one aunt that I really feel bad not inviting because she's done a lot for me and I'm the closest with her. I just feel like if I invite her other aunts and uncles will get offended or upset. Should I stick to immediate family only or do I invite her at the risk of pissing off loved ones?

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Latest activity by vicky, on September 22, 2017 at 12:56 AM

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FutureMrsW · on September 22, 2017 at 12:07 AM
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This is tough, I'm sorry. This is why I ended up having a big wedding, because I couldn't just have immediate family there and I didn't want anyone to be left out.
I know it's hard, but I'd say leave your aunt out. Its just a lot of trouble and hurt feelings otherwise. Maybe talk to your aunt and explain the situation? I'm sure she'd be understanding.
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Jacks · on September 22, 2017 at 12:09 AM
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An elopement is really just the two of you and witnesses. You're having a small wedding. I would leave it to immediate family. It'll be fine.
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Lisa · on September 22, 2017 at 12:16 AM
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Yes. We call it an elopement because we have three weeks to plan it haha. It really was a last minute "let's just do it" decision. We don't have the money for a wedding that includes everyone. Just a small, intimate wedding. I just feel so bad because I told her and her face dropped. :-(
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vicky · on September 22, 2017 at 12:56 AM
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Hmm...small wedding. maybe do invite her. It's already bugging you.
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