Elopement ceremony- photographers

I think you have to decide what's most important to you; the date or the money. Unfortunately, you can't expect someone to break the law to work your wedding.

We've already agreed that we'll just lose out on the money if it comes to it. We don't want to sacrifice the date. It's important to us and we've waited long enough to be married. But it's a very personal decision. Maybe you could do a vow renewal with the photographer and videographer?

I don't think you have much of a choice. Since Cali has a shelter in place, I doubt anyone will be coming out until it is lifted. You can double check since the date is important to you but like Caytlyn said you cant expect someone to break the law to work for your wedding. I know its frustrating but this is what we have to deal with right now. So, you can lose the money and hire someone else or just postpone.

Sorry

Good Luck and Best Wishes

Hi Carly,

It's a tough spot. I'm sorry you're being forced to choose. Unfortunately, neither you nor the photographers/videographer have control over COVID-19 and the corresponding rules.

I like Samantha's suggestion: Maybe you could do a vow renewal with the photographers and videographer?

To add on, perhaps you could have a larger party to celebrate your marriage when social distancing is lifted? It could be casual or more reception-like. Up to you!

Congratulations on your upcoming elopement!!!