So lately I've been super stressed. Maybe wedding planning has something to do with it, but I'm super broke, and I don't have family to help me pay for a wedding. So it would just be the FH and I putting out money for a wedding. I now just want to save up money and go elope in the Red Woods. I'm tired of planning. Over a year out and my whole family is getting pissy with me because I'm not making them happy with how I want to get married. Anyone else say screw a wedding and just run off and get married? Because I'm close to just stop planning or trying. FH doesn't care either way, but if we're saving money and still getting married, I know he'll be happy. And honestly, so will I. I just wanted to have my grandparents at my wedding.. and my horse. I'm so torn and have no idea what to do. SEND HELP!