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Beginner April 2019

Easter Saturday Wedding - Feedback

Jordan, on April 19, 2018 at 5:54 AM

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Hello, So my wedding date is April 20th and my fiancé and I are super excited and booked our venue in February. This date is important to us because we met 7 years ago on that date. But I am super nervous now because I completely did not realize Easter was the 21st and I must of missed it due to...
Hello,

So my wedding date is April 20th and my fiancé and I are super excited and booked our venue in February. This date is important to us because we met 7 years ago on that date. But I am super nervous now because I completely did not realize Easter was the 21st and I must of missed it due to this years date just being super early for Easter. Would y’all consider this rude to outside guest? It will be immediate family and very close friends and my fathers work friends that I’ve known for like my whole life (I’m 25) and have even been in their weddings. Just FYI my family is catholic but my parents were ok and didn’t even notice either. My fiancé family isn’t really religious but there all coming from out of town. Feedback would be nice since I can possibly talk to my venue cause it’s a year out.

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  • Meet_The_Clarks
    VIP June 2018
    Meet_The_Clarks ·
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    If I were invited, I'd go. I'm not big into the religious aspect of Easter ( I know some are). Anything to celebrate is a plus in my book. I suppose this is a know your crowd type thing.

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  • BlueHenBride
    Master March 2017
    BlueHenBride ·
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    If I was local, then I don't think we would have any issue attending. We'd go to your wedding on Saturday, then go to church on Sunday. But, if we had already committed to going away that weekend to visit family, then we'd have to decline.

    If I'm an OOT guest, then it'd be a toss up and dependent on whether I knew about your wedding date early enough. Did you tell us we were invited before our family started discussing plans for Easter? Have we committed to anything at our church before we found out we were invited to your wedding? Will we be able to make our travel arrangements so we can visit a church in the area where the wedding is taking place on Sunday morning, or will traveling home on Sunday mean we have to leave early enough that we can't go to a church service at all?

    I wouldn't automatically say no to attending your wedding because it's the same weekend as Easter, but there's a higher chance we'd decline because we had a prior commitment.
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  • J
    Beginner April 2019
    Jordan ·
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    Wow thank you all for the feedback! Well my fiancé is doing some research but he reassured me his side of the family will be fine! His grandma that lives in OK said she is good with the date. I called my venue and they said I cannot change so there’s that. I’m sending out save the dates 6-7 months in advance and invites 3 months out (my venue requires a final headcount 60 days out). I believe that is plenty of time for scheduling. I may post on my website the surrounding churches and make little Easter baskets for the little ones attending. Thanks again for the great feedback everyone!
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  • MrsD
    Legend July 2019
    MrsD ·
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    I think traditionally, holiday weekends are not the greatest. I'd anticipate a lower amount of guests showing up than on another weekend. We usually get together with our family Easter Sunday for church & lunch, so some are traveling out of town. So they sometimes leave the night before, or wouldn't want to be out late. I think I'd still make an effort to attend if it was in town. Out of town, probably not.

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  • J
    Beginner April 2019
    Jordan ·
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    Good thing is there is a lot of single individuals and I’m having entire families invitied. I’ve texted the families and they’ve told me that the date is totally fine with them. I don’t have any extended family like second cousins or great aunts were inviting or expecting to come anyways.
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