Hey y'all! I'm a bridesmaid in a wedding in a month or so. We are told that everyone needs to be at the brides hotel room by 7 am to begin hair & makeup. Is it unreasonable to ask for a schedule of times that each bridesmaid that would be going for hair & makeup, or to suggest that everyone arrives a little later at like 8am? The bride and her MOH are staying in a hotel the night before but none of the bridesmaids were invited so we are all expected to drive 20 mins - 1 1/2 hours to the hotel. I'm all for celebrating with the bride during the morning but that makes it such a long day for everyone else and I find it somewhat rude that the rest of us were not invited to stay with them (even if we needed to sleep on air mattresses on the floor) I understand that it will take us awhile to get ready since it is a larger party, however I think it's also rude to expect us all to arrive that early. I personally think it makes more sense to have the early appointments stay with the bride and MOH the night before and for those going later can arrive 15 mins before their appointment or at a later time (i.e. 8 or 9 am). I know this is probably a controversial topic and I'm open to hearing all opinions (respectfully only please).