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Savvy February 2019

Dry Wedding. Thoughts??

Ashley, on August 28, 2018 at 2:38 PM Posted in Wedding Reception 0 14

We have decided to not have alcohol at our wedding and the reception will end at 8pm. Thoughts on a dry wedding? Should I change the time? Any recommendations in replace of the alcohol or making the wedding more fun?

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Latest activity by Emily, on September 11, 2018 at 1:54 PM
  • FutureMrsKC
    Master January 2019
    FutureMrsKC ·
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    In my experience, dry weddings are usually better for the day-time/brunch only because people usually expect alcohol, especially with dinner. I went to a lovely brunch wedding where they only served champagne for a toast and no one really batted an eye for alcohol because it was 11am.

    If its for cost reasons there are plenty of ways to collect and save up for a beer and wine only bar. This is very affordable.

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  • MrsD
    Legend July 2019
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    I prefer dry weddings earlier in the day, if we attend them. I would have lots of non-alcoholic options, sodas, sweet and unsweet tea, flavored tea, flavored water, carbonated water, coffee, hot tea, lemonade, etc. Some outdoor games would be good too! In my experience, dry weddings don't have really any dancing (or not much) and people tend to leave after dinner (just what I've seen in the 2 I've been to).

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  • Kelly
    Champion October 2018
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    An evening dry wedding I wouldn’t expect dancing or a party type atmosphere. I imagine people will leave early. Can you move it to daytime?
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  • Kelsey
    Devoted September 2018
    Kelsey ·
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    I agree with everyone, make it an earlier wedding. Maybe offer games if it's outdoors.

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  • A
    Savvy February 2019
    Ashley ·
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    What time should I do it at? meaning what time should the venue be closing?

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    Savvy February 2019
    Ashley ·
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    What time do you think the wedding should start? and what time should everyone leave at?

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  • Going to the chapel
    Master July 2017
    Going to the chapel ·
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    Have everything over by 5 pm. You can start whenever you want for a morning or afternoon ceremony.

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  • FutureMrsKC
    Master January 2019
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    The wedding I went to started at 10:30 and the ceremony was roughly 10:30-11, brunch was served 11:15-12:30 or so with speeches and everything, then lawn games, cake, and a few dances from 12:30-3. They took all of their photos after it ended so they didn't have to have a cocktail hour. Brunch had a lot of yummy foods, and there was champagne but also other things to drink like juices, sodas, tea, etc. They had cornhole and giant jenga outside. It was honestly a fun environment and I didn't feel like it "needed" a bar to make it better.

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    Savvy February 2019
    Ashley ·
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    Thanks for your input!!!

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  • MIWM
    VIP June 2019
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    If that's what you want to do I say go for it. People have a good time without Alcohol. You can have Mock tails to make it fun.

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    Savvy February 2019
    Ashley ·
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    What's the latest time the wedding should end?

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  • K
    Expert September 2021
    Ka-Rina ·
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    I'd move it to earlier. gf had one and people honestly left right after the cake was cut some didnt even wait for the cake. it was a 5pm ceremony and 6pm-10pm reception. it was empty by 8. if you can take advantage of the brunch/lunch idea that everyone suggested and be done by 4-5pm! lawn grames sound amazing and so does lunch atmosphere actually

    we are drinkers and so are all of our friends and family so there is no way we can do it but id have a brunch/lunch type of thing w bbq and outdoor activities (id throw beer pong in it too lol)

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  • Jenny
    Savvy October 2018
    Jenny ·
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    Dry weddings are a-ok in my book. But if you're going to have a dry wedding, make sure your music is on point. Get you some dance music that will get everyone pumped up and out of their chairs racing for the dance floorSmiley smile

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    Devoted August 2018
    Emily ·
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    I went to a dry evening wedding a few years ago, and I noticed a lot of people complaining about it. Some people even brought flasks of hard liquor and spike their own drinks. I don't have anything against it personally, I think it comes down to knowing your audience.

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