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Braincatcher
Beginner August 2018

Dry Reception/Afterparty

Braincatcher, on September 7, 2016 at 2:27 PM

Posted in Etiquette and Advice 45

The venue I'm in love with belongs to an LDS (Mormon) church and so they don't allow alcohol to be served. That's pretty common around here and I don't think anyone will be too upset by it, but I would like to have a bit of an afterparty where the guests who do imbibe can join us for a cocktail....

The venue I'm in love with belongs to an LDS (Mormon) church and so they don't allow alcohol to be served. That's pretty common around here and I don't think anyone will be too upset by it, but I would like to have a bit of an afterparty where the guests who do imbibe can join us for a cocktail. What is the etiquette around such a thing?

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  • FishingBride
    Super February 2017
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    @Swin. Were you there? The only happy people were the bride and children. Even the groom was just meh. It was food and then they expected people to dance.... Yeah no, I'll just sit here eat my meat and cheese and leave where I can drink.

    Knowing your crowd is a big thing. My FH family is LDS as well as members of my family and they'll be joining us for reception even though they don't drink. They understand.

    Get a caterer and a bar tender Smiley smile you'll be good to go at an after party!

    That makes more sense OP I was thinking I had to have special permission to go inside temple. Smiley smile

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  • Princess Consuela
    Master November 2015
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    I'm almost afraid to ask....will your after party be hosted?

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  • annakay511
    Master July 2015
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    There would be zero point of a dry after party haha. Personally, I would find another venue- that would be a deal breaker for me. But if you keep your venue, I would keep the reception short (few people will dance or stay long at a dry wedding anyway) and host an after-party at a local bar. I like @Kristina's suggestion of including the after party on the invitation.

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  • Hot Like Bea
    Master January 2017
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    So not only will there be nothing good to drink, but there will be no safe food to eat. Sounds like a blast.

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  • Kristina
    VIP August 2017
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    @ Celia... I was speaking of my group only... my .. I have seen your comments here and know you could drink me under a table.. then again my idea of a drink is Amaretto and Orange Juice.. but when I talk about my 60 crowd.. most are on heart monitors, wheelchairs, bad hips... things that make it unable to dance. No disrespect to anyone outside my group was intended.. I am sorry if I offended anyone.

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