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Victoria
Dedicated November 2022

Dress Uncertainty…

Victoria, on November 1, 2021 at 2:39 PM Posted in Wedding Attire 1 41
Hi bride buddies! I just said yes to my gorgeous dress this past weekend and I love her to pieces, but am also kind of second guessing myself. And I’m not sure why. She’s COMPLETELY different from what I thought I wanted, but none of the other dresses I tried on made me feel even remotely close to what I felt in what ended up being my dress. I even teared up a little (which is weird for me to do!) I guess I’m just coming here for some reassurance that I don’t look silly in it and won’t regret picking a style so different from what I wanted! Do I look like a snow beast? Is it too much?? I’m normally all about simplicity so she’s a little more busy than I would normally go for. But this just made me feel like a bride. I just don’t wanna regret it and feel like I was playing dress up!
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Latest activity by Nisha, on November 17, 2021 at 3:46 PM
  • Samantha
    Super May 2022
    Samantha ·
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    Obsessed with your neckline! You look gorgeous in it, and if you feel comfortable in it, then you will look amazing Smiley smile

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  • Samantha
    Super August 2022
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    Girl this dress is amazing 😍 You teared up, you look phenomenal, you are totally allowed to have gone a completely different direction with your dress!!

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  • Ashlee
    Super September 2022
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    It looks incredible!

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  • Shannon
    Super July 2022
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    Love it, especially the pattern on top and the fact that it’s not strapless. 👍
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  • Rachel
    Dedicated October 2023
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    You look incredible! I love the neckline and the skirt. It's okay to be a little out of your comfort zone. You do NOT look like you're playing dress up at all!
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  • Ansley
    Savvy June 2022
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    Absolutely beautiful! Love the flow of the dress.
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  • Melinda
    Expert March 2022
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    Its beautiful! And how was Beckers Bridal for you?! I had the BEST experience there!

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  • Cece
    Rockstar October 2023
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    This happened to me too- I had a very specific vision of what my wedding dress would look like… and chose the complete opposite! Just embrace it and don’t analyze it too much. The dress looks beautiful on you!
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  • Bird
    Super June 2021
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    I love it and think you look amazing! I had dress doubt as well... I even asked my grandma on the phone “will I regret that I chose a high neckline when I’m 75 looking at my wedding photos!?” And she was like “what?!?”
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    Hahah that kind of makes me laugh that I said that. But I totally understand what you may be thinking. If you feel like a bride then I think this is the one! -One thing I kept noticing was on other dresses the sleeves looked like regular every day sleeves you might find on a tank top or dressy going out top. I wanted to wear something that did not look like I was wearing a casual tank top! -It makes sense to want to wear something that you feel comfortable with and gravitate towards but also cool to be in something a little different and be able to stand out as a wedding dress- good luck!!! You’ll be a gorgeous bride Smiley smile
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  • Yasmine
    Master October 2020
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    It's really pretty!
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  • Brianna
    Just Said Yes September 2023
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    It's gorgeous! My cousin just got married and she got something completely different from what she initially wanted as well. She thought she didn't want a big, princess ball gown, but that's the one she fell in love with and teared up at as well.

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  • Debbie
    Just Said Yes August 2022
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    You look beautiful!!
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  • A
    Just Said Yes October 2022
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    You look stunning and its absolutely gorgeous! It's your party so you can do what you want to! Don't 2nd guess yourself, such a waste of energy, put that energy into planning. Be confident and know you look stunning!

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  • Kari
    Master May 2020
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    The dress is beautiful. If it makes you feel good (and better than any other dress did) I would remain confident in your decision, even if its different from what you originally planned.

    Unless there is a feature you absolutely wanted and this dress doesn't have, or something that nags you about the dress that you can't quite get over, I wouldn't worry that it's different from your original vision, as long as it makes you feel good and fits your venue and budget.

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  • Cyndy
    Master May 2019
    Cyndy ·
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    This dress is absolutely gorgeous on you!
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  • Heather
    Super November 2021
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    It's a beautiful dress and it compliments you!! Smiley laugh

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  • Jameshia
    Beginner June 2022
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    Omg! You cracked me up on the snow beast part. My answer is no it’s not too much. It’s absolutely beautiful!! You only get one wedding day so make sure you do whatever you’ve always dreamed of☺️
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  • Christy
    Devoted April 2022
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    I ordered my dress in March & started second guessing myself the moment I got home. Like you, I picked something completely different than anything I would’ve ever dreamed of wearing (big, poofy, ball gown 😳). Dress finally came in 2 wks ago & when I tried it on I fell in love with it all over again. Trust your gut 😊
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  • Sierra
    Dedicated January 2022
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    Snow beast? more like SNOW QUEEN!! my jaw dropped girl, it’s gorgeous!
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  • J
    March 2022
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    That dress was made for you. Clicked this just to see it and you look like a beautiful bride. Go with what feels right not what you normally do. You don’t normally go getting married haha keep her!!!
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