Dress shopping was a nightmare

So obviously your bridal party is the girls you trust the most! Right?? Because apparently I suck at picking mine. I have a matron of honor (she’s currently over seas but has been helpful and supportive and even stayed up late her time to be with us via video message for my first dress shopping appointment my maid of honor is my best friend who’s more like a sister to me we have been friends since the first day of middle school. Then I have two bridesmaids my bio sisters and a junior bridesmaid my niece. Now of course if I had not asked them to be in my wedding it would have caused a whole problem so I asked them and they all said yes. Fast forward to my first dress appointment and things are going great my maid of honor has my matron of honor on video message I’m trying on dresses my maid and matron of honor and my mom are giving a bunch of input (which I wanted) my niece is trying I give her that. But my sisters are basically just sitting there. One trying more then the other but neither giving much care to my dress. Then it was time for the bridesmaids and flower girl part of our appointment. My flower girls show up and that’s when things go absolutely nuts. The girls are running all over the store only wanting me their mom is just like what ever my maid of honor is trying to help my matron of honor look for dresses my niece is looking at event dresses and not bridesmaids dresses my older sister is getting mad at my niece because she keeps hollering that she needs her mom to do this or that so my older sister puts all her dresses back and refuses to try any on. Then my little sister (who isn’t a dress person in the first place ) hasn’t picked a single dress to try on. Which I do understand but I couldn’t even help her find a dress to try on because I was trying to make sure the flower girls weren’t messing with things finally my little sister chooses one dress to try on which she said she liked but that appointment was supposed to be about me and my wedding and they all turned it to focus on them. I’m so mad about it and when I talked to my mom she tried to justify their actions but I’m ready to fire every one except my maid and matron of honor and start from scratch. 😒