Hello everyone!
I just went dress shopping this past Friday, and....didn't find my dress. It wasn't the best experience, and I feel guilty because I feel like I wasted my MOH and bridesmaid's Friday. The first shop told me to list the dresses that I saw on their website that I want to try on, but half of the dresses I wanted to look at weren't available in-store. The second shop asked me what I liked and didn't like (even had me fill out a style questionnaire online), and they STILL kept pulling big poof ballgowns (which is one of the styles I said I did NOT like). Both stores also pulled dresses that were WAY under my budget, which is nice, but I would've been fine with trying on ones that were higher on my budget scale. I guess the plus side is that there's one dress at each store that I liked and could see the potential in. It's just hard to envision what the dress will look like after alterations, and taking extra crinoline out.
We're going to another store this Saturday, so hopefully I find my dress there!
For those that didn't find 'the dress' on their first shopping visit: how did you deal with the disappointment? How did/do you cope with the anxiety of picking a dress and making a big purchase? What did/do you do when others aren't validating your feelings and worries?