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Dress concerns?

Jasmyn, on December 29, 2019 at 2:10 PM Posted in Wedding Attire 0 16
If any other bride in a similar situation could help ease my mind that would be GREAT! So I got my dress early (very early but oh well) so I got it Feb 2019 and my wedding isn’t until June 2021. I still love my dress (no dress regret yet) but I’m 99.9% sure when I was ordering my dress with the boutique they told me the dress would come in 6-8 month. Well at the 8 months mark (October) I called to follow up and I got a passive response asking me when my wedding was and she brushed me off saying that it wasn’t in yet probably because our wedding is in 2021 and that she would check and give me a call back. It’s been a busy past couple of months so I never followed up and she never even did a follow up like hey we do or don’t have it.. is it possible I misheard when I ordered my dress that it’ll come 6-8 months BEFORE the wedding not 6-8 months after I ordered it? I don’t want to be a nuisance to the boutique so I thought I would see other people’s opinions before calling.

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Latest activity by Shveta, on December 30, 2019 at 2:24 PM
  • Katlyn
    Devoted December 2021
    Katlyn ·
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    Hard to say if you misheard, but either way I think it wasn't right for the shop to brush you off. You should get a straight answer.

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  • J
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    Jasmyn ·
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    That is also what I thought I’m not not a confrontational person so I kinda just let it slide. I also tend to let my anxiety get the best of me so I was just trying to stay mellow when they didn’t call me back because I didn’t want to be constantly calling. I think I’ll wait until after the holiday. January will be almost a year and I don’t care if it is supposed to be 6-8 months prior to the wedding. I just want to know with confidence what it is supposed to be.
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  • Caytlyn
    Legend November 2019
    Caytlyn ·
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    It would be very odd for them to base their production time on your wedding date unless you were super close and had to pay a rush fee.
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  • J
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    Jasmyn ·
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    See that’s what I thought. I also remember having a conversation with my FH’s aunt that they would hold onto the dress for me before the alteration process so my fh didn’t see it because it was a longer amount of time.
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  • Chrysta
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    I suppose it is possible you misheard; although I have never heard of a boutique basing the delivery time on your wedding date. Either way though, they should definitely be giving you a straightforward answer about when your dress will be arriving. I would most certainly follow up with them. The fact that they did not seem to know whether the dress was there or not, and then never followed up with you, makes me wonder if they forgot to place the order in the first place.
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  • J
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    Jasmyn ·
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    Oof. That comment made my heart sink but only because that is so true and I didn’t even think of that. Thank you so much for your input!
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  • Chrysta
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    Luckily for you, you ordered your dress with lots of time to spare! So even if they did forget to place the order, you still have plenty of time to receive the dress for your wedding 👍🏻
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  • Kelsey
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    I was told the same thing by my dress store but they also have the date of the wedding and told me because I ordered early it might take longer because they base the production also on the wedding date. But I have received my dress already, I ordered in March and got it in August. I find it odd that they brushed you off, I would call them back to see what is going on.
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  • J
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    Jasmyn ·
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    Okay. I guess a part of me felt guilty for repetitively calling since I know my wedding is so far away still. I’ll just have to give another call to get some clarification!
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  • Erin
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    You shouldn’t ever feel guilty for calling to ask about something you paid for. You gave the store money for a dress, and are well within your rights to call and ask them about said dress. It is not right in their part to brush you off just because your wedding is far away I’m also getting married in June 2021 and I have my dress all ready to go (besides alterations) in my FMIL’s closet, and the store i went to never gave me any trouble or hassle about ordering it so far in advance.


    Sometimes you just have to keep calling in order to get through, and sometimes you even have to go in and speak to them in person before you get any real answers. Do what you need to do in order to figure out what’s going on with your dress.
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  • Kelsey
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    I totally understand that. I hate calling people, I feel like I'm bugging them. But I think it's ok to call. They may have gotten busy with the holidays and what not. I think it's fine to call them again and just ask for clarification on your dress.
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  • J
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    I should say the boutique owner that I usually have met and spoken with has always been a dear and very attentive. I'm not sure who the person was the last time I called. Maybe I can just brush it up to a busy day for them and try calling again. Congratulations on picking your dress and a date! Smiley smile

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    I agree! The owner has always been very kind (that was not the person I last spoke with). I will just have to call again. Smiley smile

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  • Erin
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    Your date was actually my original date and the. I decided to move it up a week because it saved $5000 on the vacation rental (since the 12th was considered offseason still xD)


    Good luck, hopefully they were just super busy, it is a popular time for wedding dress shopping. I’m sure it’ll all work out just fineSmiley smile
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  • Dierdra
    Super August 2021
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    I would go in in person and ask so you get some paperwork for a straight answer. It also helps to eliminate any sort of misinformation or misinterpretation on either part ( because I would be a little frustrated)

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    Shveta ·
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    So, a savvy consultant would look into the possibility of ordering your gown (from their vendor aka designer), at a later date so that it's not just sitting around getting oxidized while you wait for your wedding. With that said, it's possible that the designer often has styles that aren't always available making it impossible for the consultant to wait to place your order. But generally if possible, consultants should try to wait as long as possible to place a gown order so that it matches up with your wedding date. It just may not have been possible with the designer/specific style you selected to hold the order back from the designer they placed the order with. Now, if they personally were making your gown, they could have waited with materials set aside for it. Going forward if you're polite and reasonable (which seems like that's your nature already), no one should think you're a difficult customer. You're likely the customer of their dreams! Don't hesitate to reach out so you understand the process better. After all, you're not buying wedding gowns every year!

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