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Jordan
Expert September 2019

Dreaded back fat!!!!

Jordan, on September 6, 2019 at 11:51 AM Posted in Wedding Attire 0 12
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I’m apprehensive to post these but I need a second opinion. I absolutely LOVE my dress. It’s the only dress that I tried on and it was love at first sight! When I picked it up in my size the lady at the shop was amazed at how perfect it fit and I was on cloud 9!!! But after a couple of fittings and seeing pics from behind, I am horrified at my back fat. I’m told it can’t and doesn’t need to be let out because it needs to be this tight to stay up but I’m just feeling super self conscious about it. What do you guys think?

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Latest activity by Katherine, on September 9, 2019 at 9:36 PM
  • Alexis
    Savvy September 2019
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    Honestly- IT DOES NOT LOOK BAD! You look beautiful. Focus on that!

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  • Amber
    Master February 2020
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    1. Your dress is GORGEOUS! I love it!

    2. I totally get where you're coming from, I had the same concern when trying on dresses.

    3. That being said, I really don't think it looks bad at all. And I promise I'm not just saying that to be nice lol. I think we often convince ourselves that our "flaws" are more prominent than they really are, we are always the harshest judges of our own bodies. I think it looks beautiful on you!

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  • Jordan
    Expert September 2019
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    Thank you! I just feel like I can't stop looking at it. Even with my veil on I can still see it!

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  • Emily
    Devoted October 2020
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    Okay first of all- you have the tiniest waist and that dress is stunning on you. Second of all, you have absolutely nothing to worry about. That is completely a YOU thing that only you will notice. Everyone else sees a bombshell bride. Try to focus on loving that part of your body. When you see that spot in pictures or in the mirror, follow the negative thought with something positive and repeat!
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  • Yam
    VIP September 2019
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    Aw hun don’t feel bad, I’ve got it too! I think that’s just what happens with strapless dresses, they have to be tighter to hold up the dress. It doesn’t look bad at all and you look tiny in the waist. No one is going go care except you, especially with your veil.
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  • Reena
    Expert February 2021
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    Your dress is gorgeous. I keep staring at all the details. You look great!
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  • Lauren
    VIP February 2020
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    Your dress is gorgeous, and I think you look amazing in it!

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  • VIP November 2021
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    Um you look gorgeous and the dress is stunning. Don’t worry about it bc honestly it isn’t bad AT ALL !!!!
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  • Kristin
    Devoted August 2018
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    What back fat? Seriously, I tried on a strapless dress and had back fat cleavage. You look stunning. We always magnify our flaws but this time trust what everyone is saying. You look great!
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  • L
    Savvy October 2019
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    The dress looks gorgeous on you!!! No one will be looking at your back. If you feel self-conscious about it you can always wear a veil or a bridal cape too!
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  • Jennifer
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    Yeah I think we all notice things that make us uncomfortable with ourselves, but no one else does. I have this thing with my nose when pics are taken from the left. No on has ever noticed until I shoved side by sides in their face lol. I didn't notice anything in your picture! That dress looks incredible on you!

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  • Katherine
    Dedicated February 2020
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    Jesus woman you are STUNNING!! 😍💕 you got nothing to worry about, this dress compliments everything you got goin on, so please don’t sell yourself short!!
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