I have two friends who are now divorced and they are both invited to my wedding, one is a bridesmaid. Initially I did not give her a plus one because she was not dating anyone. Now she is and expressed to other people (behind my back) that she is mad she was not given a plus one but I gave her ex husband a plus one.
Fine, I texted her and told her to bring someone if she would like. She can bring her next door neighbor for all I care. I told her I wanted to squash this now but she wants to talk on the phone.
I have no desire to continue this conversation and deal with drama. I also am nervous that if I talk to her on the phone i will say something I regret. I am not good at handling emotions from others and fear I will say something that will cause her to be more angry with me.
What do I do? Am I in the wrong and if so, what do I say to fix it?