Don’t want my dad to walk me down the aisle

I don’t want my dad to walk me down the aisle. I never really had any parents due to my mom dying at a young age and my grandma basically raised us for my dad (dads mom) he refused to go to my highschool graduation out of pettiness bc he told me I would never graduate since I was a teen mom (only one of his four kids who didn’t drop out despite that) he never supported me through college he doesn’t even bother to care to know where I live (just the town) told me he isn’t putting a cent towards my wedding despite his parents and my moms paying for his wedding and his whole divorce. He thinks I’m rude bc I told him if he can’t at least even help me pay for my dress then he doesn’t have a right to “give me away” since he never did anything for me growing up. How do I tell him no matter how much he whines he isn’t getting that opportunity? They’re all saying it will make him “look bad” as if him not even knowing where I live doesn’t make him look bad enough. It’s even funnier to me he hates me for being a teen mom when he married my mom when she was a teen mom herself.