I do not want anyone walking me down the aisle. The thought of it to me is always really awkward and cringey. Both my parents have always been in my life and albeit we haven't always seen eye to eye but my parents are together and married and have been for like 25 years. Lately, they don't even seem excited to even talk about my wedding at all (Getting married 7/31/21). And myself and FH are paying for the wedding ourselves, we aren't asking anyone for anything if anyone offers, its another story, but we aren't asking for anything. I don't want to hurt anyone's feelings or offend anyone or piss anyone off but with my family, it's more than likely going to happen. I don't want to be walked down the aisle, but I did include my parents to walk together down the aisle as well as my FH parents. We included both sides of the family for walking down the aisle so nobody feels left out. My brother and my FH siblings (He's a triplet) are all in the wedding and I have a place for all the parents to walk in.
Is it okay to say I don't want anyone to walk me down the aisle or do the father/daughter dance really. My family is not a hug/physical contact type of family. I couldn't tell you the last time I hugged anyone in my immediate family in the last 4 years.