It finally happened. FH and I got into a huge fight last night over silly things (which did not seem silly at the time) and realized we haven't been communicating with each other as much as we have in the past. While we are both busy working (overtime too for wedding expenses) we have forgotten to make time for us as a couple and to PUT OUR PHONES AWAY and actually have face to face, open ended conversation over coffee. FH left for work this morning (he's a pilot so he actually leaves for days when he heads to work) and we woke up early together to have coffee and chat this morning like we used to do. Y'all...it was so nice!! I highly recommend putting down our phones and having these face to face moments as often as feel's comfortable for you as a couple and to actually talk about things that bother us well before they become a boiling point. Every couple fights, but the couple's that last learn from their battles...and also don't keep score. Unless it's something like reality tv predictions...then absolutely keep score.
That's my soapbox message of the day. LOVE Y'ALL and keep talking!!
