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Donezo with fmil

Blag, on June 23, 2019 at 10:37 PM Posted in Family and Relationships 0 4

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My fiance’s Mom cursed out my mom and me because of an answer she didn’t like. She said really nasty things to my mom like on an extreme level. I decided to block her on fb because I was not going to allow her to have any room to behave and be really messed up towards myself and my mom. Fiancés dad told him to tell me to re-friend her on FB and I said no. He’s giving me a hard time about it but I just simple to not have time for the drama she constantly brings, lieing, being manipulative, constantly seeking attention, passive aggressive. Fiancé really just wants me to be back to FB friends so she stops complaining. I chose to not be fb friends with her for a reason. Who is right here? I did tell my fiancé that I’ll be cordial but am certainly not going to be ‘close’ after the non-stop drama she’s brought throughout this wedding engagement and not going to give her any room for her crap. They keep enabling her to be the way she is and it’s not doing herself any good. They need to think about cause and effect. This will be a good way for to reflect on her choices and I sure am not going to put up with how she’s been. read my other posts from this past week for background info.

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Latest activity by Alejandra, on June 24, 2019 at 2:13 PM

Super September 2019
ASMini914 · on June 23, 2019 at 11:17 PM
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Can you refrained her, but set the privacy settings to the extreme so she can only see some things?
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Heather · on June 24, 2019 at 9:59 AM
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Stand your ground. I’ve blocked my FMIL on Facebook before. Once she admitted her wrong and apologized, and asked nicely herself, I added her back.
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Melissa · on June 24, 2019 at 10:04 AM
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You do not have to be friends with anyone you don’t want to be on Facebook. It’s social media, people take it too seriously. I would hold your ground. If you don’t want her reading your posts, you don’t have to allow it, although if she is that nosy and you are still friends with other family members, know that your posts may still get back to her, so I would avoid any passive aggressive / vague posts about her.
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Alejandra · on June 24, 2019 at 2:13 PM
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Do what you have to do! In the beginning my mother in law would say all of things to my then boyfriend about how I did not want to go over all of the time to their house and how that obviously meant I was not serious. She would post things on FB about a son must always listen to their mother and do what she says because thats the right way to do things etc. One day I told my hubby that I didn't feel like to going to visit him because she always trying to make it seem like when I was there that he was not doing his part, or would try and hinder our plans by insisting that he take her somewhere because she needed him to do so. I was just done and hubby pulled his mom aside and told her that she needed to back off or else he would be forced to not be around as much anymore. He also told her that she needed to get to know me before being judgmental and that he loved me enough that he wanted to be with me so she better get on board or be prepared to not be very involved. She finally gave in, kept her mouth close and just met me and she loves me. We have a great relationship and have some distance between us that helps just enough.
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