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A.Magill.Since.May
Master May 2018

Doing the announced reception entrance without the Bridal Party?

A.Magill.Since.May, on April 19, 2017 at 5:23 PM Posted in Etiquette and Advice 0 16

So I'm going through all the paperwork sent by my DJ, and it has the spot for all the names of the BP for the big announcement of the entrance into cocktail hour. Since we're not doing a first look, I know photos will take a little while and my initial idea was to do BP photos first so that the GMs could all get back to their SOs and the cocktail hour instead of without around for all the family photos (the BMs are my sisters), finishing up with the pictures of us with our parents, and the announced entrance include just our parents then us.

Is that rude/ depriving the BP of the honor of having their names announced during the entrance? I was focused on the utility and logistics of everyone's time being spent well during the reception and forgot to question if there is any etiquette involved here that I'm messing up.

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Latest activity by Marianne, on May 23, 2017 at 2:44 PM
  • lyla
    Master July 2017
    lyla ·
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    I'd love to hear opinions on this too. I don't see the value in announcing the BP at the reception either and would rather they have fun with their SOs during picture time. I don't want to snub them though.

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  • Nicole
    VIP November 2017
    Nicole ·
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    I've been to several weddings where the bridal party joins the cocktail hour while bride and groom finish photos. Or the bride and groom also join cocktail hour. Then, when the guests are asked to take their seats for dinner, the bridal party leaves and waits in the hall or other room. Once all guests are seated, the bridal party and bride and groom are introduced and dinner begins. Could you do something like that?

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  • Kathleen Smith
    Kathleen Smith ·
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    I think your logistical thinking is very good. I have done this timeline/scenario before and it works very well. The BP did not feel left out (as far as I could tell) and were at the head table cheering the newlyweds in.

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  • Katherine
    VIP June 2017
    Katherine ·
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    We are the only people being announced. I think it gets silly and it's just not necessary.

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  • M
    Savvy September 2017
    Monique ·
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    My FH and I also decided on not announcing the BP. I honestly have never really understood the point. I understand they are a part of the big day but the focus should be on the bride and groom in my opinion. I already talked to my bridal party and they all were relieved when I told them they wouldn't be announced.

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  • V2O
    VIP January 2018
    V2O ·
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    We are announcing the bp. But I also don't think it wouldn't be rude if you didn't. I have seen it at every single wedding I have been to, I think it's nice introducing the bp.

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  • Lauryn
    Super October 2017
    Lauryn ·
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    We arent announcing them as we come in. But we are acknowledging them in the program and right before toasts.

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  • NinjaBride
    Super June 2018
    NinjaBride ·
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    I have been in a BP that we went to the cocktail hour while the bride and groom finished pictures. When they were ready we rounded up and met at the entrance for our "official entrance"

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  • Svetlana
    VIP October 2018
    Svetlana ·
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    I think if you are having a dance where their names are announced then you don't have to do so with the start of the festivities.

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  • A.Magill.Since.May
    Master May 2018
    A.Magill.Since.May ·
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    Yeah, I didn't really love it at the weddings I've been to (or the ones I watch on TV ). It's not a batting lineup, it's a wedding lol. I'm thinking maybe make sure FH or I thank them by name during a quick thank you speech/ toast to make sure they're recognized.

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  • DoggoMom
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    DoggoMom ·
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    We didn't announce bridal party either. I've always felt so awkward when I was in the bridal party and had to make an entrance. No one really cares that I'm bridesmaid number 3 of 5. Your guests want to see you enter.

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  • sanders4ever
    Super May 2017
    sanders4ever ·
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    Are parents of bride and groom usually announced too or just BP and bride and groom?

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  • A.Magill.Since.May
    Master May 2018
    A.Magill.Since.May ·
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    I thought so? Haven't been to very many weddings...

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  • Erin Wood
    Master July 2017
    Erin Wood ·
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    My BP has no desire to have a grand entrance. They are willing to stand up with us but that's it. HaHa! We are just having DJ announce us. I would ask them what they want.

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  • Shaya
    Devoted March 2018
    Shaya ·
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    Man, I'm not even that thrilled with us being announced! As a bridesmaid it was always my least favorite part of the night. I guess it depends on your party but I'd personally be relieved if I was in your BP.

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  • Marianne
    Expert May 2017
    Marianne ·
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    We are doing both too

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