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Ana
Devoted September 2019

Does the wedding party get invitations?

Ana, on May 16, 2019 at 3:33 AM Posted in Planning 2 16
Hi
just a question
Thanks

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Latest activity by Lisa, on July 21, 2022 at 5:27 PM
  • Trista
    VIP September 2019
    Trista ·
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    I sent STDs to my girls for sentimental reasons. I didnt send them to the guys.
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  • Amanda
    Dedicated June 2020
    Amanda ·
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    I believe so
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  • Grace
    Expert June 2019
    Grace ·
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    Yep! That way you don’t have to have a separate conversation with them about the time and place, they should already know. And if you’re giving them a plus one or if they have a family then you add that to the invitation and rsvp. You might not need the wedding party to rsvp but you need to know about the people coming with them
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  • Formerbride
    VIP June 2019
    Formerbride ·
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    I sent every person coming to the wedding an invitation. I have always been sent an invitation when I am a bridesmaid.
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  • Tynesha
    Dedicated May 2019
    Tynesha ·
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    I didn’t. I just sent them to my groomsmen and made a Facebook event page for my bridesmaids. I only have to put things out once and then I’m done lol

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  • Caytlyn
    Legend November 2019
    Caytlyn ·
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    If you want them to come to the wedding, they should get an invitation.

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  • J
    Master October 2019
    Jolie ·
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    Everyone invited should get a STD and invitation including family and those in the wedding. It's important to get all the details to everyone and that is simply the easiest and formal way.

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  • SummerBrideInAutumn
    VIP October 2019
    SummerBrideInAutumn ·
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    Yes, they are among your invited guests even if they are in the wedding party, so they should get both a STD (if you are sending those) and an invitation.
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  • Furture Mrs. G
    Expert September 2019
    Furture Mrs. G ·
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    I would say definitely so. I sent to everyone especially my bridal party. Their a BIG part of the day and deserve STD's and Invitations just like other guests.

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  • J
    Devoted June 2019
    Jasmine ·
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    Yes, I sent STD'S and Invitations. Especially invitations because you would need their food selections.

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  • Larisa
    Devoted July 2019
    Larisa ·
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    I was a BM once and when the bride gave me my invite and expected to RSVP ...I laughed like what? Of course I’m going to be there. We talk all the time, see each other at least once a week, I know the details. That’s how I felt initially but I went along with it. And the invite is nice for sentimental reasons. Now my turn I gave out invites more for sentimental reasons, one of my BMs had the same reaction as me so we laughed together. My MOH and her now husband (a GM too) went all out with their RSVP writing little notes on it. It’s super cute and I love it. So though I still think it’s a bit silly to send them one when you should be communicating with them about wedding stuff anyways, I think it’s pretty great for sentimentality. (Sorry that was long)
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  • Mandi
    Master October 2020
    Mandi ·
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    Yes. My fiance was in a wedding last year and didnt know what time or where the wedding was until the invitations came... a week before the wedding.
    I kept getting mad at him for not telling me anything, but he had no information to share with me until we got the invite.
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  • Mrs.
    Super May 2019
    Mrs. ·
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    Yep, I sent to all my bridesmaids and all the groomsmen. They're more like guests of honor so we felt like they should receive the invites for sentimental reasons. We had them RSVP because we had questions like food restrictions or any song requests, and some of them have significant others so we invited them by name on our wedding party's invitations.

    Husband and I also received an invitation for an upcoming wedding that he is the best man for.

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  • Jess
    Super September 2019
    Jess ·
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    Yes and no. All my bridesmaids (except 1) just graduated college and still live with their parents. Their parents are invited so they will be getting an invite. I figured the parents invite could double as an invite for the bridesmaid as well. As for the other bridesmaid. She is already married and lives on her own, so she and her husband will be getting an invite in the mail as well.

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  • Catherine
    Just Said Yes October 2023
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    What's an STD?
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  • Lisa
    Rockstar July 2022
    Lisa ·
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    STD means Save The Date
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